if every thing has a reason,

why would we be worried about hardships

this is easy to say when the pain is on you or someone you don't care about.

but when the pain is on someone you care about, you start to devise a plan

thinking about things that may or may not be successful 

but to move things forward

put barricades on 

to prevent what can be prevented

it all comes from the feeling of being lost

in a sea of possibilities

and knowing that suffering hurts

but at the same time

not considering everyone's share of suffering

has to be given and taken from them

that's the cruelty of human creation

and anything outside of this is unnatural

an act of hubris against the gods